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#1 TheRisingShadow

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 12:04 AM

FML. Some girl texted me and I never really knew her but her name sounded familiar. So anyways she sent me a pic of how she looks like. She looked cute, so I said "You're pretty (:" in a text. Then she said "Thanks" Then I checked her Facebook and she looked ugly. That was the only good pic she had.

What made it worse is that she was texting me "Oh no body likes me I'm ugly, etc" then I told her she was pretty, so now on Monday she's probably confront me or something, FMLLLLLLLL.

I'm just gonna ignore as best as I can, then if she does confront me, I'll say "You looked better in the pic" xD I'm such a doucheeee. :/

What do I do????

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 12:25 AM

Use these;



Might help. xD

EDIT: From personal advice, just explain yo shit was a mistake :P

Edited by Shyseven, 04 December 2010 - 12:28 AM.


#3 Zcrux

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 03:22 AM

Same thing happened to me a while ago. If she asks you if she's pretty, just say something like "kind of" or "just a little." That way you don't say yes and you don't say no and look like a douche.

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 04:55 AM

GET 'ER BUCKED! ™

Hahahahahahahahaha, I will check this topic every hour to see your world come crushing down muhahahahah :D

#5 Jittery Blanket

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 07:18 AM

lmao... I love when you people have these kinds of problems.

Ok, now that that's out of the way, how bad could it really be? Like, I can't imagine she's THAT ugly if she had a pic you liked, must mean there's something you find attractive about her. I know angles and junk make a difference and stuff, but my point is that in that one pic you liked her and that kinda means that she CAN be pretty to you, at least in the right situation etc... Anyways, you got yourself in quite a situation, I'm not sure what's the best thing to do. On one hand you want to be honest with her, that's very important, but on the other hand you don't want to hurt any feelings. I guess just let her down as easy as possible, tell her that you liked the pic, but you just aren't attracted to her or something. I dunno, this isn't an easy situation. But I'd say if you would rate her at least a 5, then you should at least get to know her a bit. A 5 is decent and you never know, maybe her PERSONALITY will turn out to be the most beautiful thing you've ever "seen" (couldn't think of a better word)... Oh yea, and I've seen plenty of females that weren't the best lookers in High School etc. that ended up being more attractive than the females that were hot back then, just saying, you might end up kicking yourself in the future lol.

And don't know if this relates to this really, but just a bit of general dating advice: Never listen to your friends when it comes to love, not saying be blind though, if friends have legit concerns about someone you're with you should look into it, but never let someone else's opinion of someone stop you from loving them. In other words, make up your own mind about people and try not to let friend's opinions sway you in one way or the other. :yes:

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 07:38 AM

I had a similiar problem except some random added me & called me hot.

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 07:40 AM

View PostBlizzard, on 04 December 2010 - 07:38 AM, said:

I had a similiar problem except some random added me & called me hot.
lol, on Facebook or somethin?

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 07:57 AM

I think all of you need a chill pill. He just said told some random chick she's pretty, not to marry him. I tell chicks there pretty all the time, don't mean I wanna go out with them. Best bet is not to ignore it, she says that you think shes pretty, just say "Yeah, I think lots of chicks are pretty."

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 08:04 AM

Thanks JB. :D

Also, to make things worse, she literally just texted me like 30 minutes ago "Heyyyy sexxxxyyyyy lol" I almost threw up when I read that. :P

Ok, here is the pic she sent to my phone.

*Pics Removed*

Now this

*Pics Removed*

Also, what should I reply to the text? Something like "WHOA WHOA WHOA, hold up, just cuz I said you're pretty doesn't mean I'm available." xD

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 04:33 PM

I've seen a LOT worse. Blizz would prolly hit dat.

*Chris Hansen walks in*

EDIT: Do what Soulja Boy would do......


Edited by Shyseven, 04 December 2010 - 04:36 PM.


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Posted 04 December 2010 - 05:18 PM

Thanks for today's lul of the day Shy. But seriously how is that really the same chick? Just WOW. IMO you should use her as a practice gf to do whatever you want with her, then when a hotter chick comes along just say "I'm not feeling it anymore" and leave that ass.

But seriously I don't even see a problem here. A chick likes you...so what's the problem?

Edited by Dday141, 04 December 2010 - 05:42 PM.


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Posted 04 December 2010 - 05:38 PM

View PostJB, on 04 December 2010 - 07:40 AM, said:

lol, on Facebook or somethin?
Yep.

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 06:18 PM

View Postbuttsecks, on 04 December 2010 - 08:04 AM, said:

Also, what should I reply to the text? Something like "WHOA WHOA WHOA, hold up, just cuz I said you're pretty doesn't mean I'm available." xD
That's probably your best option, but not so blatantly.

I'm really trying to figure why you came to us about it though. :lol:

Edited by Shyseven, 04 December 2010 - 06:19 PM.


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Posted 04 December 2010 - 06:46 PM

View PostShyseven, on 04 December 2010 - 04:33 PM, said:

Blizz would prolly hit dat.
I would.

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 07:04 PM

Yea, there is definitely worse out there. She looks like a normal girl to me, not super hot, but not super ugly... anyways, yea, I'd say out of respect for her though that you should take the pics down. Unless of course she's fine with it... but I'm guessing you didn't ask her lol.

oh and Shy, he came to us cause we always give great advice :lol:

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 07:33 PM

View PostJB, on 04 December 2010 - 07:04 PM, said:

oh and Shy, he came to us cause we always give great advice :lol:
I'd like to believe that. :rolleyes:

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 07:37 PM

How old is this girl?

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 10:52 PM

13... if you tapped that you'd be a pedophile. :P

Well she kept texting me and I ignored it and then she said "I think we should get to know each other more" then I replied "Sorry, I kinda got a my eye on another girl. I've liked her for 3 months." Then she said "No I just want to get to know you not to go out with you" then I didn't reply. :D THE WICKED WITCH IS DEAD! :P Hopefully she doesn't like walk up to me on Monday. It was be awkward.

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Posted 05 December 2010 - 07:44 AM

It's your choice of identity. Butt sex? :D

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Posted 05 December 2010 - 08:13 AM

View Postbuttsecks, on 04 December 2010 - 10:52 PM, said:

13... if you tapped that you'd be a pedophile. :P
****. Wayyyy to young for me.

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Posted 05 December 2010 - 10:24 AM

View Postbuttsecks, on 04 December 2010 - 10:52 PM, said:

13... if you tapped that you'd be a pedophile. :P

Well she kept texting me and I ignored it and then she said "I think we should get to know each other more" then I replied "Sorry, I kinda got a my eye on another girl. I've liked her for 3 months." Then she said "No I just want to get to know you not to go out with you" then I didn't reply. :D THE WICKED WITCH IS DEAD! :P Hopefully she doesn't like walk up to me on Monday. It was be awkward.
Wow dude, that's pretty douchey of you...

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Posted 05 December 2010 - 10:32 AM

I know and I wish I didn't do it, but I had to. But atleast I know I won't make this mistake again.

Also I'm putting the pics down.

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Posted 05 December 2010 - 08:14 PM

Oh good, No one wants Blizz milk.

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Posted 09 December 2010 - 05:52 AM

View PostDday141, on 04 December 2010 - 07:57 AM, said:

I think all of you need a chill pill. He just said told some random chick she's pretty, not to marry him. I tell chicks there pretty all the time, don't mean I wanna go out with them. Best bet is not to ignore it, she says that you think shes pretty, just say "Yeah, I think lots of chicks are pretty."
Or you could always clear it up with "lol jk"

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Posted 09 December 2010 - 09:05 AM

Hm. Well, you already got everything figured out, but I'll give my 'rude me' advice anywho. It comes down to three simple phrases.

Tap her
Slap her
Walk away

I didn't see the pictures but I am certain I've done FAR worse judging by the comments. Not that I'd do her myself, I'm not a pedophile or any such which, but I've gave plenty a girl their '18th birthday present' if you catch my drift. I'm sorry to say I'm not exactly inexperienced with all varieties.

Also, Before I get any flack about treating women like objects, I really don't, there's always a strong bond before I do anything. (Gotta know for sure if they have the herpily derpilies after all. :P) I just thought it was a fun time to use that line. :P